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To My 8 Year Old, Now That Life is Tricky

3/13/2016

 
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I wrote a letter to my big girl because shit has gotten so much more more difficult than I anticipated and I was increasingly losing my mind. More and more often I have felt like our interactions escalate quickly and my behavior devolves just as quickly. I find myself answering her snotty, argumentative retorts with my own sharp remarks or with consequences that don't make sense. It was ugly and we were both losing sight of the people that we really want to be. 
​Check out the letter on Portland City Moms Blog. 
I wrote a letter to A when she was three and it is a manifesto that I have tried very hard to live by and, call me naive, but I didn't realize how hard it would be to continue living by each one of the promises I made in that letter. They seemed straight forward and reasonable. I'm still working hard at it, but now I'll also remember my new plan. 



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11/23/2019 04:21:41 pm

Having a schedule as detailed as this is very impressive. I want to know people who can make such detailed schedules. Well, I am not someone who can make a schedule for myself, which is part of the reason why I am so impressed. Sure, I want to be a better person, however, I do not think that I cannot do this. I want to have a schedule that will allow me to make the most of my time, that is it.


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    I'm Molly. I'm all in for parenting.  I'm all in for good food. All in for big and small outdoor adventures. And really only partly in for homemaking. I want a Martha Stewart home and meal, but the truth is, we mamas just can't do it all. Not really. This shit is tricky!
    This is a collection of musings and missives about parenting like you mean it. I mean really mean it. About how you can pull off a really mostly decent meal, keep your house kinda clean, do some of your laundry, and also even remember to usually feed your pets. But mostly about  how being a mama is hard and we can totally rock it, but maybe that dream of perfection has got to give a little.

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    Molly

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